Monday, March 12, 2012

Shared Blessings

These photos were taken around June 2011.
Lena is the one about to enter the hula hoop on the left.
Lena is towards the back right side with the nanny, who we believe is the deaf nanny.Lena is the one in the far back corner.
Lena is in yellow being held by the boy in the front in a white t-shirt.
These ladies were visiting the orphanage last spring.
Lena is being held by the woman standing in purple.
While we are waiting for LOA (and I believe today is day 33....not that I am counting), I figured I would share some neat stories of things that have happened the last couple of months.
I connected with a wonderful family who is adopting a little girl from the same orphanage as Lena. They were waiting on some of their last steps in the process and recently got their TA (travel approval). They will be leaving this Friday for China and have so generously offered to take a care package to Lena for us. We sent them some fun things for her. They are hoping to get to visit the orphanage and meet her as well, but that will depend on if they are allowed to and how well their daughter is adjusting. The package will get to Lena via the orphanage official no matter what! :) I am so excited for them and for their daughter Hannah to be coming home though I am sad that one of Lena's friends will be leaving her.
And speaking of that, a month ago maybe we were given some videos of Lena from our agency...videos sure are a wonderful gift! In one of them she is running around and smiling and though it is just a few seconds long, it melts my heart. In a couple others she is at the top of a slide and we noticed she has a little bossy side...lol. I think because she is unable to communicate with anyone like the other kids there can, she uses her facial expressions, clicking noises, her pointer finger, and other body parts to get the message across. I shared the first video we got with our friends because their daughter Hannah was in it. They were so happy to have that video, even if it was just a few second glimpse of her. :) I also shared Lena's birthday pictures and a few other pictures I have found in an online Chinese search engine that have both girls in them with this family...what a great find! Those photos are posted above. But back to the videos- so in the one video where Lena is showing her personality/bossy side, Hannah comes up the slide and Lena kind pushes her off with her knees. She tries again and Lena takes a balloon ball toy and hits her on the head a couple of times, as well as pointing where she should go with the click click sound she makes. Oh my! I am going to share that video with Hannah's family as well because it will show them how precious she is and give them a feel for her sweet, easy-going personality- she never once got upset, yelled or pushed back, etc. She just happily went somewhere else. I told Hannah's family that it looks like I need to give them a disclaimer before sending the video- our daughter is the orphanage bully!
Lena sure reminds me of Landyn. Those two will give each other a run for their money- could be interesting around here. Lena also looks bigger than she is too. Her and Hannah are only 2 weeks apart in age. Hannah's DOB is her true birthdate because her parents left her with a birthnote. Lena's birthdate is estimated so they could be off a bit, but I wouldn't think they'd be off by more than 2-3 months since she was found as an infant. She just looks big, but maybe it is all of that winter gear they keep them in.
Here is another neat story that I had to share: A woman from Canada on the orphanage yahoo group posted about going back to visit the orphanage with her daughter so that she could show her daughter
where she is from. I asked her if she would try and get pictures and/or video of Lena and give her a hug from us. I also asked her if she would be willing to ask the orphanage if she could get photos and/or video of three boys that I have found on the shared list who are still waiting for a family. I gave her their information and the photos from their files. She visited there today (last night probably while we were sleeping) and she got some photos of Lena that she shared with us and here is what she said about her: "I was able to obtain a video of your little Yujie.....very cute little girl. They say despite her hearing disability, she knows a lot of things. It seems the nannies in her part of the orphanage are quite fond of her." She said she would share the video when she got home. She got photos and video on two of the boys as well and told me a bit about them. The third was living in a foster home and couldn't get there. She said: "I explained you were on your way very soon to adopt Yujie. They were pleased, but when I explained why I wanted updates on the boys, they were ecstatic. I said you were trying to locate families for them, and they thought that was wonderful. Keep up the good work." This all just made my day! :) I am now praying that I will be able to find a family for at least one of those boys- a family for all three of them would be wonderful!
Here are the pictures of Lena from March 12th in China...last night for us!

Wednesday, February 15, 2012

And now we have...


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We got the call today that we officially have a log-in date- February 8th, 2012. That means our paperwork is now logged into the system in China and are officially waiting for our Letter of Approval (LOA) which can take anywhere from 30 to 150+ days,though average is around 50-75 days. We are seven days down and praying we are on the quicker end of the timeline. This will be what our travel is really dependent on. My best guess is still travel between June and August, but we shall see what the LOA fairy has in store for us!

I have a few other exciting things I need to share here...just working on figuring out how to do that...lol.

Super excited to be logged in and a week down for the LOA wait!

Thursday, January 26, 2012

Today we are finally....




It felt like it has been forever in the making and things took a little longer at the embassy than we were originally told, but I am SO excited to say that we are finally DTC TODAY via DHL!!! For those of you not familar with the lingo- this means Dossier to China and is huge! All of the paperwork is now out of the US and on its way to China, where once it arrives, it could take anywhere from a few days to a few weeks to be logged in. Once logged in, the wait for the all important Letter of Approval- LOA starts. And that wait can take anywhere from 32 days to 150 days....that is why it is too early to tell when we will be traveling. Our best guess though is that travel will be between June- August.

Praying for a quick LID and LOA since we have been waiting 6 months plus for our daughter already due to having to go about things a bit backwards in the beginning because of needing a waiver from China.

We are so blessed and thrilled to be at this point- it is a really big deal!

Tuesday, January 3, 2012

And we have...

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So after reading on a yahoo group today that my friend, Jennifer, got her approval on Friday- day 64 (day 65 for us), getting an email today from my friend, Beth, saying she got her approval on day 66, and hearing that my friends, Kim and Sharon got TA TODAY, I figured it is a GREAT day...what can it hurt to call again and see if we got our I-800A approval (I called early last week and we hadn't been assigned an officer...so I didn't want to feel disappointed again today).

I didn't make it to the call though because when I went to get one of my boys off the bus I checked the mail and low and behold, there it was!!!! We got our approval on 12-29-11, which would have been 64 days....received it on day 69.

One minor hiccup- our officer didn't put an "e" on the end of my name so I called her and she said she would fix it and mail a new one out today....whew!

Very excited to be so close to DTC (Dossier to China)! Just one more step (authentication) that might take 2-3 weeks at most hopefully and our agency is doing that part for us!!

Tuesday, December 13, 2011

A Smile and a Little Bit of Love go a LONG Way!

We got photos today from Lena's birthday celebration
thanks to Kelly and Angela with Lady Bugs N Love!!!!

And we have a precious smile!!! Yay for a smile and for the nanny in the picture who appears quite smitten with our sweet girl. I am guessing that may be the deaf nanny I have heard about- I will have to look into that. It sure gives me relief after some of the things I have heard about the orphanage. It may be hard for Lena to leave her special nanny, but we know from past experience that if a child has a special bond and has attached to someone in their life that they are way more likely to bond with us and attach. I am praying this will be true for Lena!
And here is what you really came to see! :)

Preparing the cake!


WOW that flame is huge...is that a firework or something? I love her facial expression here!



Trying to show that she is TWO years old!







Blowing out the candles!Cakes are a big deal in China! Every child's I have seen has been just as fancy. This cake is beautiful! It is also a tradition to smear frosting on the child's cheeks! Too cute! :)

This is your last birthday without your family!



Celebrating with friends-so glad to see everyone getting a special treat! And from the looks of it, she seems to be the only girl. SO many boys in need of a family....LOVE our sweet boys so my heart just aches for them!

Monday, December 12, 2011

Personalized Name Magnets to Help Bring Lena Home

I have been making personalized name magnets on the side for awhile now, selling them on Etsy. I can basically make anything- I have made some I heart volleyball with stickers for the heart and volleyball, seasonal or holiday sets, cupcakes, you name it! If you are interested in purchasing a set, put a message in the comments section or send me an email to el_lauren@yahoo.com with the name (s) you would like or if you have a personal request. If you are local, I will get them to you. If not, I usually send them via priority mail so be sure to leave me your address. Shipping is $4.95 regardless of the number of sets you buy!

Remember- I can make just about anything- so if you are looking for something in particular, just ask!

You can get any name or initial set as well. These are great for showcasing a child's school work or photos on the fridge or on a filing cabinet at work. I am working on learning how to set-up a chip-in on the blog, but I do have a pay pal account you can send the payment to...open to suggestions, as I am learning! :) My pay pal account is listed as: Brooke Henningfeld and the email listed is the one above.


PERSONALIZED NAMES OR INITIALS- $1 per letter plus a one-time $4.95 priority mail shipping charge no matter how many sets you order! I don't have a whole lot of choice in the color of the letters, but I do try to choose background paper that goes well with the sticker color and that is fitting for the child's gender. Be sure to tell me if it is for a boy or girl if it is a name that is gender neutral or if it is a 2 or 3 letter initial set (all a little bigger than a quarter in size).

2 letters= $2 plus shipping
3 letters= $3 plus shipping
4 letters= $4 plus shipping
5 letters= $5 plus shipping
6 letters= $6 plus shipping
7 letters= $7 plus shipping
8 letters= $8 plus shipping




Sunday, December 11, 2011

Fingerprints update and a VERY Happy Birthday to our little girl!

A quick update on the fingerprint appointment. Our appointment date was for Dec. 5th but we decided to try and walk in a few days early (this does not speed up the process) so that our boys would not have to miss a morning of school. We went on Wed. Nov. 31st and were successful! :)
Now to wait for the actual approval....USCIS (immigration) has up to 90 days from our receipt date (Oct. 26th) to approve them. We are on day 46 today, I believe. Current statistics are showing 65-75 days which puts us right around the week between Christmas and New Years, so I am going to take a stab in the dark and guess we will be on the longer end- I think 75 days would be Jan. 9th so I am thinking it will be that week. 90 days would be Jan.. 24th and that is getting too close for comfort since our 6 month deadline China gives us from our pre-approval to get our dossier to China (DTC) is Feb. 1st!! I would rather have a little extra time than be pushing it, if you know what I mean! So we continue to wait!

On a totally different note....December 12th is our little Lena's 2nd birthday! You might be thinking...Brooke, it is Dec. 11th....you are right- it is the 11th here, but it is already the morning of the 12th in China! HAPPY 2ND BIRTHDAY, LENA GRACE YUJIE! It is bittersweet to be celebrating a birthday of one of your precious children, but to not be able to celebrate together as a family. So we will do the best we can- we will celebrate her birthday tonight as a family- we have a cake with her name on it. We also ordered another care package 2 weeks ago. We sent her a cake, a doll, a few books, another camera for her nannies to get more pictures of her for us, and some candy/nuts for the nannies and possibly for the other children in care there. Here are pictures of that. We cannot wait for the day we get some pictures of our sweetheart with her cake....how exciting it will be to get those! Praying our little love has a wonderful day and rejoicing that it will be her last birthday without her family!

Our family celebrating Lena's 2nd Birthday- her last one without her family!



Nana and Grandpa JP too!




Our boys celebrating their sister's 2nd Birthday!



The cake we got to celebrate, along with Lena's picture and a doll my
mom and step-dad bought for her.



Care package we sent Lena minus the cake!